As a life coach, I have learned that people really hate making decisions. Some folks do not trust themselves, or fear making the wrong choice. Decisions are not good or bad, right or wrong. Decisions are options that are weighed and measured with a purpose and objective in mind. However, making a decision is not about the goal but about the process. When you arrive at the conclusion or goal, you should have learned valuable lessons about yourselves and others—no matter how challenging or easy, of if you like (or dislike) the process or options. Therefore, when you can see the result as not about being successful or avoiding pain, but about growth and change, you can feel comfortable about your decision and choices.